A mirror of Dread

Offering a comprehensive understanding of coercive control, Intimate Partner Violence. Accountability is prevention. Knowledge is power.

A mirror of Dread

Offering a comprehensive understanding of coercive control, Intimate Partner Violence. Accountability is prevention. Knowledge is power.

  • A Mirror of Dread (Narcissus: The Narcissist’s Mirror)
  • Coercive Control: Take All Measures
  • OOP (Order Of Peace) Journal
  • PSA (Public Service Announcements)
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Note: We were not married. "Husband" was a title he gave himself. He is a misogynist. In his distorted and delusional mind he believes a "husband" has the right to control "his woman". To beat "his woman". He believes "his woman" must obey him, or feel his wrath. He wants said that I must feel his emotional pain through the physical pain he subjected me to. Once he could no longer control me he set out to ruin my character.


Here is the key reason why narcissists accuse you of cheating…


12 Ways A Narcissist Controls (And Abuses) You Via Text Messages.


Text from October 7th, 2020 after I had escaped for the final time. The violence had escalated and I was too afraid to go home.

Abusers may use a wide range of tactics against domestic violence survivors in the legal system. Domestic violence survivors and advocates report that common

tactics used by abusers include:


Litigation abuse:


* Repeatedly contacting survivor’s attorney in order to harass the attorney or to increase the survivor’s legal fees.

* Filing frivolous motions, appeals, motions for revisions, and motions for reconsideration of court orders.

* Attempting to re-litigate issues that have already been decided by the court.

* Abusing the discovery process by seeking embarrassing or irrelevant information about the survivor and by demanding excessive discovery.

* Bringing contempt motions against a survivor without cause.

* Portraying themselves as the victim by seeking their own protection orders against the survivor and/or the survivor’s friends and family.



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